As much as we would love them to, we have to accept that our beloved cats can’t speak to us. And barring some breakthrough invention from a billion-dollar start-up, they likely never will.
Frustrating as this may be to the cat-obsessed among us, it’s important to realise that cats do communicate. They may not speak our language, but they do use a range of physical cues to tell us how they feel.
We just need to learn how to speak feline.
Pinned-back ears
Like their owners, cats may experience anxiety, too.
This can present itself in many ways, including pinned-back ears, tail flicking, dilated pupils, reduced appetite, restlessness, hypervigilance and excessive grooming, among other signs.
If you notice this, try to keep your cat calm by soothing them and offering treats. Maintaining a consistent atmosphere for them is important, too (if they dislike houseguests, for example, don’t throw a big party) and most importantly, give them their space.
If this behaviour is prolonged and your interventions aren’t doing the trick, take your cat to the vet to discuss options. They may need behavioural therapy or medication to get them back on track.
